Let yourself be seen from the inside. Let’s go Beyond the Surface.
Welcome to Beyond the Surface: Berlin Offline Dating Club Edition.
A playful, pressure-free way to meet people you might actually click with—whether that’s over deep conversation, a playful touch or an intuitive feeling that you both showed up at the same event for a reason.
Up until now, Beyond the Surface has been about connection without the intention to date. But let’s be real—some of you want to find someone special. So, let’s make it happen.
We are hosting three events to ensure everyone feels included, seen, and has the best shot at meeting someone great. We ask you come with a friend… single or in a relationship. This way we guarantee even numbers.
💫 Round I for straight couples (if you're looking for an opposite-sex match)
✨ Round II for "womxn" (for queer women, non-binary folks, and FLINTA vibes)
🔥 Round III for gay men (for all the amazing men looking for men)
And if you’re bi, pan, or just open to possibilities? Choose the space that feels best for you—or come to more than one! The whole point is connection, and we want you to feel fully welcome wherever you vibe most.
This isn’t about swiping, judging, or making forced small talk. It’s about curated experiences, engaging activities, and actually meeting people in a way that feels natural. Whether you leave with a date, a new friend, or just a fun story to tell, I promise you won’t leave feeling like you wasted your time.
Because dating should be exciting, not exhausting. And connection should feel real.
Ready to meet your people? Let’s do this.
📅 Dates & Details Coming Soon for the Round II and Round II! Join the telegram group for updates or follow @intimacycards and @berlinofflinedatingclub on ig.
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Beyond the Surface : BERLIN OFFLINE DATING CLUB edition
Date: Monday, March 31th, 2025
Time: 7:00pm-10:00pm (be early or on time) No one admitted after 7:30.
Where: Honey Lou Bar
Anzegreuberstr. 3, Neukölln -
You are single and sick of online dating and shallow interactions.
You are a friend of someone single that you would like to help find love outside of hanging out in bars and swiping on apps.
If you would like to prioritize connection on a deeper level from the start, this is for you.If you’re curious to see who the stars may aIign you with, come!
If you want to practice being vulnerable and removing your mask in order to find someone who sees the real you, this event is perfect.
If you don’t like small talk and you’d rather get to know someone in new ways to feel the chemistry IRL, get your ticket now.
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Sharlene Durfey Francois, the creator, artist and founder of the Intimacy Cards and Beyond the Surface will be the MC for the evening, curating your experience with the Intimacy Cards. You are in good hands!
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Tickets are 20€ and include a free welcome drink upon arrival.
Tickets limited to 40 spots. Buy early!
What are they saying?
“One thing which many people value about Berlin is its anonymity. We’ve all had this encounter with a character, which would be unthinkable in a different environment than a place like Berlin. However, walking through the city’s streets, being surrounded by strangers, it requires courage to make contact and interact with people, something we all need to do every now and then.
Even more so it takes courage to dive into a pool of strangers and talk to them about intimate life situations.
This setup facilitates just that: opening up to a stranger without judgement while remaining as anonymous as liked. I happened to get engaged into the most interesting and encouraging conversations with the person I least expected it when entering the room. It feels like a confessional box, but with „real“ people, being just as humble and as vulnerable as you are. The great thing about those cards is that your partners‘ openness just reflects your own and sometimes that openness escalates with each turn of response you take. Those reflections about your life situations may reveal a complete new viewpoint on your actions, feelings and thoughts.”
Eric Förster
“It can be incredibly hard to make friends in a new city, especially in one as transient as Berlin. Creating a true connection that’s not rooted in clubbing or bar hopping can feel next to impossible.
That’s why Beyond the Surface is such a breath of fresh air. In only a few hours a room full of strangers become familiar friends. In a day and age where so much focus is on what separates us from one another, it’s truly refreshing and magical to see the ways in which we connect through shared experience.
Sharlene’s super power has always been connecting people, and with this event + her Intimacy Cards she’s created a way for that ability to create connections to grow + become something of its own.
Unlike so many intimacy coaches /events/classes, Beyond the Surface is truly its own thing. There’s no pretentiousness or hierarchy- just true connection, lots of laughter and people willing to open themselves to one another.
I highly recommend this event to anyone who is looking for connection and friendship + a true definition of what intimacy is.
100% will come again..”
Kimi Recor
“Attending 'Beyond the Surface' was truly empowering, set in an intimate environment where everyone exuded warmth and hospitality from the moment I walked in. It was eye-opening, showing how you can really click with people just by asking interesting questions and caring about what they have to say. Can't wait to go back for more good times.”
Sebastian Smogar
I am so very grateful to Sharlene Durfey François, the creator of the Intimacy Cards, who started this beautiful event, Beyond the Surface in co-operation with the incredible heart-warming, non-smoking bar, Honey Lou. They created this little island of connection through a 'simple' card game that shoots for the heart and creates moments of interconnectedness for me and the people with whom I talked to, which I touched (consent confirmed) or at whom I looked at, all of which I have literally never done like this before in my life.
It was a bit uncomfortable in moments but in the good kind of way. I was reminded of the ease on a playground as a child, when meeting as play mates for the moment. I felt similarly paired to the freedom I experienced in the rave culture that provided much needed love for me when I was growing up.
I wish this experience 'Beyond the Surface' to create an intimate place in many more people's souls and bodies.”
Seah Zenker
You can also join the Telegram group where I will announce the next event and you can keep in touch with those people that you met. Find it at: https://t.me/beyondthesurface121